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My husband keeps playing pc non stop if he's not on it he's on the phone or sleeping, I just can't do this anymore I don't think I can take this for much longer. I have no place to go and no money what's so ever with our 3 kids .... what can I do? My hands are literally tied ughhhh FML
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Talk to him about your concerns. That’s what a marriage is about, communication. Maybe there’s something both of you are missing that isn’t being talked about. After all, you are partners, it takes 2 to make it work.
ReplyIt seems like he is escaping and leaving you stranded. That's not fair. You deserve an outlet too. Find it! Give up on trying to talk sense into him. He's not going to get it until he feels you escaping into your own "hobby". Don't show him your desperate for his attention. Men see desperation and they take advantage, it's their nature. Love yourself and find something that makes you happy. It's not selfish. If you're happy, then you'll be a better mother. And your kids will be happier. If you think they don't feel your pain, you're wrong. They may not be able to make sense of it or explain it but your kids feel it when your not happy. So be happy not just for you but for them too. And your husband will start to notice and want to share in that happiness. Then you can sit down and tell him how hurtful it is that he feels the need to escape from you. And try to stash money somewhere no one will find it. A woman should always have a stash of money for emergencies. I would find sneaky ways to get money out of him. Oh and don't stash all the money in one place. I wish you luck girl you are in a rough spot, I know I've been there. I eventually got out but my ex turned to drinking halfway into our marriage and he cheated. I actually sought out therapy to help me deal with all the emotions and crap, so I could finally get the courage to leave.
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