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The way I view relationships of very different to most people
I’m in love with my girlfriend and I’m very committed to her
But also I love my friends and would do anything for them
I would do romantic things with them in they asked and would be in a relationship with them if they wanted
But I don’t know how to explain this to my friends or girlfriend
So basically I love my girlfriend and my friends, I’m committed to my girlfriend but am open to others how do I explain that to them ?
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I’m not sure if you should. Be willing to be in a romantic relationship with your friends is different than wanting to. If this is something you want, then maybe you should discuss this with your girlfriend first but if it’s just something you’d be open to, then maybe you shouldn’t.
If you honestly know that both your girlfriend and your friends are only open to monogamous relationships, then maybe telling them this isn’t the right thing to do. Letting them know could put them under pressure, which may cause them to distance themselves from you because they don’t know how to deal with it. On the flip side, your friends may open up more to you but it may also hurt your girlfriend. People who are monogamous may see a romantic relationship as a partnership where two people are closest to each other as opposed to a relationship where all partners love each other in a certain way. The whole reasoning behind why people are in a monogamous relationship is different to that of a polyamorous relationship.
ReplyIf you truly love your girl, you won't prefer anyone over her. You should control your feeling in order to choose a side.
ReplyIf you don’t understand polyamory don’t comment
ReplyYou can’t and you can’t expect your froiends or partner to be ok with this honey. I too am committed. But I cheated 1 and never again. My heart hasn’t recovered yet. He has my heart x
ReplyIt’s not cheating if both parties are okay with it
If you don’t understand polyamory don’t comment on a polyamorous post
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