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These fucking degrading labels!
Do I ever fucking hate labels being thrown around by people without factual evidence and vaild truth. The worst is when it's coming from a bunch of completely ignorant and delusional people, who knows absolutely shit all about a person and their entire life.
It's fucking annoying having irrelevant people always trying to guess "what's wrong with you", without actually coming to you about it first and speaking with you directly.
People just seem to automatically jump to conclusions and make assumptions based on very little information provided. In most incidents, it comes from other people who don't have a solid relationship with the other person and act like they're entitled to speak for someone else. Within my own experiences, not only did I get judgemental people labeling me the most degrading, disrespectful and hurtful names imaginable. I also had dealt with people trying to figure out what mental illness/es or disorder/s to label my personal struggles.
I've gotten people falsely labeling me without actually having proof and confronting me about it. For starters, I was labeled as NPD(Covert-Narcissistic Personality Disorder), ASD (Autistic Spectrum Disorder), BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder), C-/PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress-Disorder), Anti-Social, and basically nearly every freakin mental health issue out there. The annoying rumors and gossip that would go around about my well-being became an actual problem in my life and causing me harm.
It is ridiculous at how often it kept changing and hardly anyone came forward to ask me directly. People were always hiding the fact that they were always discussing about me behind my back and making all sorts of remarks.
They acted as if they knew everything that has gone on within my entire existence, would listen to other people who aren't at all reliable with telling the truth and it had made me completely uncomfortable. I feel underestimated because people actually thought I wouldn't notice all the shit they were doing and saying about me. People don't take the time to think before listening to someone talk about another person, then have gone around telling everyone else who are strangers to me, about how they think they know what's wrong with me and proclaim it as truth. I've had people making assumptions in school and saying that I had learning disabilities all sorts of screwed up shit which was not true. None of which is the fucking truth, there's no fucking proof of any of this at all and be are fucking gullible to believe. I would of been aware clearly if I did have any developmental issues growing up but I fucking don't.
It still pisses me the fuck off having people always making their simpleminded remarks about me and my life. The thing is it always continues and there is no end to it.
People really don't seem to see bigger than what is visible infront of them and that's because it comes from a place of pure ignorance.
Heck, people even "closest" friends and family dont know most of the shit I've been through within my life and are completely clueless about what actually went on behind closed doors in my home environment or outside of it. My parents are fucking delusional, dysfunctional, emotionally unavailable people and their perspective of me were off in many accounts, but they like to pretend infront of everyone else like they know everything and give a shit.
I find it really insulting that people believe it's okay to label, make assumptions and gossip about a person's life. Alot of people have no validation in jumping into conclusions, accuse, make assumptions and judgments based on the chapter they landed on within my life. Just because I am the way I am today, it doesn't fucking mean I was always like this and forever remain. Makes a huge difference when it comes to speculating and analyzing anything in general. Science is based on research, analysis, facts and it's always being evaluated before there is a final conclusion. It's common sense to check over what you're looking into, thoroughly from beginning and to the end. I'm not a fucking specimen here, or some test subject to be reviewed by irrelevant and random people who aren't fucking helping me.These people aren't fucking benefiting my life in any positive and healthy way but talk alot.
I'm a complicated human being with my own set of issues like everyone else and you don't see me going around labeling others without soild proof.
I'd like to say, just because these people have difficulty trying to, or can't figure me the fuck out doesn't justify to take so little from what they think they know of me and expanding that as any form of proof. Opinions, theories, assumptions aren't determine as fact and truth.
I have wished people would mind their own business in such cases because it has brought me unnecessary amount of drama, distress, discomfort and annoyance but nobody gives a fuck enough to stop. Overall, it had nothing to do with them in the first place and that's were boundaries are crossed. It's one thing to be concerned, worried for someone and confronting them directly about it. On the other hand, going around, jumping to conclusions and throwing labels like it's a game is very immature. Mostpeople need to get the fuck out of here with their false assumptions, labels and trying to fit others into boxes. It's time to shut the fuck up about other people and their life.
_- Jas
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