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TLDR: my chill/monotone friend became very “passionate” over something small he wanted me to go to and was blushing and mirrored what I did.... please give advice.
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The other day a friend of mine, not too close but not distant, got upset for the first time. They are usually really chill and almost monotone. His family threw a party for Halloween and I don’t celebrate that. He seemed genuinely miffed/peeved about me not going. He was like ‘I don’t get why you can’t just stop by and say hi...’ (we are neighbors) That was the morning before he had the party. The next day walking home from school I asked how it went and he was like “you would have known if you had gone. You didn’t even have to celebrate you could have just gotten pizza said hi and then left.” And I was just like ‘well that would have been rude so...’ The issue was that he was genuinely upset and maybe even a little hurt, he’s always trying to get me out of my house but he had never been this passionate about it before. I mentioned before that he is usually chill and monotone but he had raised his voice to one of those almost yells where you can tell the person is upset but they don’t want to upset you by yelling. I looked at him and I was like “why are you getting so angry about this?” I just asked him, plain and simple. He was like ‘I’m not mad I just don’t get why you couldn’t have stopped by when it was literally outside your window’ what I noticed is that his usually smooth completion now had pink/red blotches along the cheeks. Once we got to his house (mine is one farther down so we part ways at his house) I was like “hey, it’s ok, but calm down a little bit, your level is up here and it needs to be down here, ok?” I said this with hand movements and I don’t think he realized it but he immediately copied my movements, literally the moment after I did it he brought his hand up to his eyes and dropped it mid stomach, just like I did. Now I’m just confused and over thinking the entire scenario. Can someone please tell me what this means?
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