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So 2 weeks ago i got a new girlfriend. (ima girl btw.) so basically she found out i had a crush on her and she gave me a chance. we're dating now... and things have been going relatively well. not to jinx it, ofc.
i cant hang out outside of school because my parents won't let me. she wants to hang out, but the few periods we have together she often just goes somewhere else.
a few days ago i was wearing a new style and makeup style which i cant do every day for reasons that are complicated. she's very into this style and when i was wearing it she made a huge deal out of me and acted like i was the best person in the world.
obviously i was very happy.
however, the next day i came to school dressed like i usually do. she didn't flat out ignore me or anything, but i could see a sharp decrease in the amount of attention (i cant think of a better word sorry) that she was giving me... and im not being clingy im just worried.
my ex girlfriend (who i broke up with in may) was also in a relationship with her (it lasted a month :P) over the summer and i heard both sides of the story but it seems like they both were being a little inconsiderate of each other. not gonna get into all the details bc its not relevant.
But i just don't know. am i being paranoid? or does she really just love me when i meet her aestethic standards? I dont want to talk to her openly about this because i really love her and i dont want her to think that im clingy or desperate.
pls give me advice...
this is giving me a lot of stress
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To me, it seems that she's only paying attention to you on her terms, and her standards. I would talk to her openly, because you could potentionally be reading it all wrong, or all correct. If you need me, I'm here.
Replydude clingy is fine. I love clingy girls/guys. just ask her and if she calls u clingy say 'it's just because i like you and i don't want to lose you'
ReplyFor u--
Don't rush, its just the starting phase of what u r calling love or might be not.
So wait for it n give this sometime. If its love, certainly both sided, then it probably gonna give results. N if its not then continue it as a friendship.
Once again don't rush, u may lost a beautiful friend.
About ur friend--
See what i infer is that she is more like a materialistic person, who fall for looks not for inner u. She might be not, u know it better.
Morals -
Look kiddo u r in a age where these things happen. Remember u were sent to school to study hard not for these things. Not saying what u r doing instead studying is bad or something but u should focus more on the priority not these thing.
At the end be a wise person, use ur brain, think effectively then respond.
Hola n take care
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