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So, I'm the girl who wrote "the unsent letter" nearly a day ago. I wrote my Grandpa who has passed away into the afterlife nearly 21 years ago and I need advice. From him and from whoever thinks they can help. Positive words are enough, because I think I'm drowning and I really don't know what to do.
Basically my boyfriend has not been a legal citizen here in this small country in Europe since around July and only he himself knows why. They took him to the other side of the country on Wednesday and they took his phone, so I can't reach him. They got to him when he was sick and he will be deported who knows when. Until then, he is in a cold place, having to sleep on the ground, not much food.
I've been crying myself to sleep yesterday and I don't know what to do. His friend/roommate feels helpless as well. I wish I could meet up with this friend/roommate again (we met up yesterday), but he smells like my boyfriend and that's a huge trigger. I listen to voice messages from my beloved and read through texts and look at pictures. I don't know how to cope, please help me.
Again, words of encouragement would probably help a bit already.
Oh btw, I have one more week of "freedom" (if I can call it that now), before I start my 5 week schooling for my future job. So I have too much free time, too much time to think
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Ask officials about his situation and go see him
ReplyDo you think the police would actually tell me where he is? I'm just not sure, because they took his phone so he is not able to have any contact with anyone. Would they really tell me where he is? That'd be amazing if they revealed his location
ReplyAwwww, I'm sorry!
Really... I can't imagine what you're going through. Seriously, I can't.
Be strong! Although it's hard, I would still keep in contact with his friend. I'm sure he needs someone too:) If you believe in God, I would definitely put it in his hands. It will help.
You'll get through this. I promise. Although life is hard, we all learn from it.
Your grandpa is probably looking down to you right now, thinking of how proud he is of you.
I know it's hard, but acceptance will come when you let it:)
I'm sure you miss him, I wouldn't doubt it. Just think about all the good times you shared. Remember him for the good things.
I wish you luck! Stay strong. Please don't lose hope; things will get better.
ReplyThank you, and I won't break the contact to his friend. I just need a bit of time to compose myself before I break down crying in front of him. Hope and positive thoughts are the things keeping me upright right now.
But really, thank you so much <3 and of course I will remember all the good things and keep on hoping that one day we can be together again. It's just difficult at the moment
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