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I'm still new to college life and I just started living alone without my parents being near me. Its hard. The first week have already passed and I made zero friends. I'm the only person in class that sits alone in that row while everybody has their own friend groups. I feel so lonely and left out and I don't even know what to do. its like eating my soul even though im used to being alone in school.
What made me feel left out?
Whatever my classmates talked about, I can't relate to them. I don't wanna show like im desperate for friends and i'm actually lonely even though I don't look like it. Its not like I didn't try at all. I did and I was left out. What should I do when im an introvert and have social anxiety? Someone please help me...
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I'm also introverted, although I feel like I don't exist I just choose to not care. Because being alone made me learn how to love myself. If you really want to have friends, then just be real, and learn to wait, you never know maybe someday someone will want to be your friend.
ReplyHi there. I too am an introvert. Well, introverted extrovert. If that makes sense. Lol. I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm sure you're feeling so very vulnerable. For sure you should always just be you. However, I have learned over time that many introverts can be seen as just not interested. So others who are naturally afraid of rejection won't even attempt to speak to an introvert. I know I missed out on a lot of friends just because I was too exhausted to be social that day or week or month. Its OK to come out of your comfort zone sometimes just to show ppl your interested. I have friends that understand me and just let me hang out without contributing much to conversation. Other days I am the center of conversation and making everyone laugh. I'm weird like that. You're going to be fine. First and foremost understand that. Be patient and maybe come out of your comfort zone a little further a little more frequently. I know it can be hard, but I think you'll enjoy it. I wish the best for you.
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