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I have just gotten out of a relationship. I'm not over my ex, but my ex is already over me. We're trying to be friends, but it's just not working out. I want to keep him as my friend, if nothing else, but we just argue and argue and get annoyed and it's just, so stupid. Then, my best friend of two years who's in a relationship, wants to leave his girlfriend for me. I don't know how to feel about that, as I struggle alot to say no, so I told him to just stay with his girlfriend, and let time run its course. I care about him, but, I no longer find him in that light. He's one of my best guy friends, one of the few people I trust with everything. Then, theres my ex of before. My ex of before and I are friends, and he's known about my ex, and he admitted that he wasn't over me. Quite honestly, that's ironic, and it hurts. I told him I wasnt ready to date anyone, and I didn't want to rebound, and he told me that he loved me and understood. Then, of course, let's put icing on the cake, I have an infatuation with someone else, and I just don't want to anymore. It's tiring me, and I want to just... Move on from everything and everyone. Fix myself. Quite honestly, I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm stressed out, trying to deal with everything at once, and I just want people to just give me time. I don't know how to deal with any of this. I just don't. I wish I did, but I don't.
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You should try to talk to them and tell how you feel. If they really care about you then they will surely understand. Then tell them to give you some space, sometimes it's better to rest sometimes and forget everything diturbing your mind.
ReplyThis kind of hits home for me. My girlfriend was kind of in this situation. I am the "infatuation" you speak of in your situation. She was also starting college so it was very hard for her. I can tell you this, she was just very straightforward with everyone. Telling them how she felt and their place in her life. Did she lose people, yes. Let me ask you this though, would you prefer to have these false friends and people around you? I feel it is best to be honest and let people move on as they will. Does it suck to lose people you care about? Of course it does. We spend so much time building relationships and remembering the good times is like a stabbing pain through the heart. Time heals all things though. Tell then how you feel. Draw close to safe people, true friends and family. They can be a great support in times such as these. If you are of faith, pray. God will send a comforter for you. In short, this too sha pass. Don't give into the urges to go back to past mistakes just to have someone close to help you heal. Its not fair to either of you. Pour yourself into a hobby. Do things for you! Enjoy life. I wish the best for you.
ReplySame thing here except for the best friend thing but maybe it's just an addiction. Tell them to fuck off and give you some peace.
ReplyBeing friends with your ex is a bad idea. Trust me because I tried. Esp if you loved them. It's way better to just forget about them.
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