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So there is a guy that I have liked for years. He recently started dating a girl whom he doesnt belong with. A few years ago we tried dating but I had gotten out of a bad relationship. I had an abusive past so I was scared of ruining what I wanted soo bad. I loved him very much but I didnt wanna hurt him. With that being said I broke up with him and told him it was a mistake. He SHOULDNT be with her. I want him back so bad. Yes it took 3 years but OMG I want him back. We graduate here soon and I dont know what is to come once that happens. I love him. He is the love of my life.
Do I tell him how I feel?
Should I do it before we never see each other again?
What should I do?
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If he is in a relationship then no. Only he can decide what is best for him. If it is a mistake then he will figure it out. You shouldn't ever mess with someone's relationship unless you know someone is going to be physically hurt. Tell someone or find evidence of it if you can..
Don't make things up or hurt someone on purpose. Those things often times backfires.
What I have learned is you can only hurt people for so long until you are caught.
ReplyDo not tell him now since he has started a new relationship. To be blunt, it seems a little selfish that you're just now wanting to tell him just because he started dating someone else. You had three years, let him be happy. You don't know what the future holds for you.
ReplyDon't tell him. If you love the guy you should let him go. If your that girl who's in a relationship with him would you like it when someone tries to steal your bf? Heck no. Move on, there are so many guys out there
ReplyYes, tell him how you feel and see what he says. If he rejects you at least you will know where you stand. How do you know he doesn't belong with the girl he's dating. He might be very happy with her.
ReplyYou are saying he does not belong with her but it sounds to me that your determination is just defined by your own interest. Don't you feel a little bad for this girl. It sounds to me like she hasn't done anything bad to you. You have to be responsible for your actions, you had your chance and you decided to charge him with the fault of your past partners. Yes, I am sorry but it is the raw truth, you broke up with him for mistreatment you received from some one else. If you look at the situation, he paid the price for someone else's wrong doings. Be his friend and be happy for him if he is happy with her. I would advise you not to break them up, karma never misses one and I am sure you don't want that in your account.
You can definitively tell him how you feel, but don't channel your frustrations towards this girl. She just happens to be lucky enough to be with the person you NOW want.
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