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I just need some insight. So he says he still loves me and wants to be with me and I believe him but there's a lack of effort because he's comfortable in the relationship. I'm fine with that but I have high functioning anxiety so I let my mind take me to not good places quite frequently. I don't burden him with my feelings really because I don't want him to stress or worry about me when I can be "fine". I just don't know how to stop the thoughts and fears that he's going to leave me or he deserves better and I'm not good enough. It sucks because I feel like sometimes it causes me to shut down and he doesn't even know. After a year and a half, you would think the thoughts would subside at some point, but they haven't. Will I ever be normal? I didn't have the best childhood in terms of being neglected and my mental health has never been great. But I always go above and beyond for those around me (especially him) because I'd never want anyone to feel the way I feel. But how can I be better for him?
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ReplyFirst communication is the best thing, you must talk about how you feel explain your insecurities, in a relationship you must have your loved one there to support you. They should comfort you and clear your doubts, stop doubting and trust your partner, that is the only way you can be better for him is by being honest, communcation is on the way to being better
ReplyThe person below says communication is the key, i believe so as well. I Have had woman come into my life and push me away just as you are to him and in turn he turns and pushes back and you both dont see it. You need to get back to your confident self, start doing the things you once loved message that old friend you used to hang out with haha whatever it may be. But encourage him to do the same, but with you together. Fight for that becasue its not worth letting some go that you once thought was "the one" or "the love of your life". You never know until you get out of that comfort zone and start opening yourself to him. Hope this helps im a little stoney bologna so hope it helps haha
ReplyThe person below says communication is the key, i believe so as well. I Have had woman come into my life and push me away just as you are to him and in turn he turns and pushes back and you both dont see it. You need to get back to your confident self, start doing the things you once loved message that old friend you used to hang out with haha whatever it may be. But encourage him to do the same, but with you together. Fight for that becasue its not worth letting some go that you once thought was "the one" or "the love of your life". You never know until you get out of that comfort zone and start opening yourself to him. Hope this helps im a little stoney bologna so hope it helps haha
ReplyI feel you. I sometimes think that maybe we are not really meant to be.
He doesn't even know when I am feeling low. If you get some solution then message me. I am also in same position.
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