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Why did he lie about going to McDonald's? Why wouldnt he tell me who he was calling when it was bishop?
Why does he want to buy me thongs? Wtf why would he say that?
What else is he lying about? Why is he avoiding me being down stairs playing mf videogames? He hasnt changed at all. Why doesnt he talk to me? Just always changes the subject or says something dumb. Wtf am I here? I hate my life. Why did I have to marry him and have kids with him
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I think sometimes that around women, men lie or avoid saying things so that they can feel in control. It's not always because they're doing something suspicious, but they don't always feel like telling their S.O. about everything they're doing. Then when they are "interrogated" by the S.O., they clam up even more. Maybe it reminds them of being yelled at by their mother when they were kids.
Unfortunately, being interrogated or being met with anger conditions them to draw back and hide even more.
What's the use of a one-sided relationship though, right? It's not fair for someone to treat you like that.
When the pandemic is over (or before then if you can do it), if things haven't improved, you should seriously consider leaving him. Make a financial plan, talk to an advisor, talk to some trusted relatives, talk to a lawyer if you need to.
Men like this need to learn that they can't just half-ass their way through everything and STILL be welcomed in your bed.
ReplyP.S. If you're another guy, I apologize for saying "around women," because I'm sure men do this around male partners too.
Replymaybe have a serious conversation with him if there something you can do, do it. I don't think I can give you a good advise but its either hes' experiencing some hardships or... hes being a dickhead. men are like aliens to the female world sometimes we just need to understand them sometimes their far to complicated to do so but in any case just know there will always be someone who will be there and listen to you if you do feel like you just don't feel happy with him anymore and that he'll never change follow your instincts in our modern society its easier to divorce just saying.. but I didn't mean anything offensive by that its just a worst case tbh we shouldn't change someone they should only change in their own good will, maybe tell him how you feel and have a deeper understanding of each other. but remember if you aren't happy with him just leave I know it sounds easier than it actually is but you always have to choose what makes you happy my mum stayed with my dad for nearly 60 years just because they had three kids but It shouldn't mean you have to stay she told me life is too short to be unhappy. sorry if I offended you in any way..
ReplyYou shouldn't have married him if you expected or wanted him to change. Maybe he wants to buy you thongs because he thinks you look good in them.
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