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I don’t really know what I want to write here. I can’t even explain what I really feel inside. There’s pain, sadness and all negative stuff which some, I don’t even understand. Life’s been hard with issues from my family and my own insecurities which messed up my head real bad that I considered postponing my marriage this December. I feel like sorting mind out before really settling down. But if I do, how long would it take? And will my fiancé be willing to wait? I know I‘M rambling but I really needed to let it out somehow. Can anyone please leave me a kind and positive comment or maybe advice? Thank you...
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hey there! so im not rlly good w advices but compliments mybe
so maybe u can talk it out bfore u get married cuz u may regret it in the future then you will hate urself but u should rlly just talk to ur fiance maybe he/she IS willing to wait
and its good that u r letting it put instead of bottling it all up thats all!
Replyout instead of bottling it up*
ReplyExplain this to the one you are marrying. Surely this person will understand.
ReplyIt took me years to be able to thoroughly explain what I feel inside. Even so, I still struggle to put it into words at times.
I’m glad you posted something here though even if you don’t know what to say, because I now have the opportunity to remind you that you aren’t alone.
Insecurities are dangerous. Try to fight them if you can, recognize that you’re here, you’re alive, you are loved, you have people who care about you even if you don’t always know it.
I’m not an expert, but here’s my advice: IF you can, and I mean IF because not everyone can do this easily, try to talk to your fiancé about what you’re feeling. Openness and honestly can help you better understand eachother, yourselves and what you’re dealing with.
It’s really, really hard sometimes but I would’ve struggled a lot more in some of my darkest times if I hadn’t talked to my girlfriend at the time about it. She helped me dissolve some of my insecurities, and she made me feel loved and important when I struggled.
Whatever happens, I wish you the best and God bless friend. I don’t think there’s an easy answer to what you’re dealing with, but I know that the biggest help for me was always being able to talk to people I care about with some of my deepest struggles. I hope you’ll be okay friend <3
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