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I think I've grown as a brat last year when I found out that my dad is not my biological father.
Don't get me wrong, he's a great father to me even if he suspected that I am not his child during my mum's pregnancy, even after he knew the results of the DNA test, he still treated me like his child.
I just became colder and more distant not just to him but also to everyone else. Things weren't like before anymore. My heart aches every time I think of my existence.
I didn't blame anyone. I didn't get mad at anyone, not even at my mum though I am aware that she cheated at my non-biological dad which lead to my unwanted existence. I am not grateful that my mum gave birth to me, but I very much appreciate everything.
I just feel really bad. They could've enjoyed their time with my half-siblings instead of me. My half-siblings weren't mad at me, however, I am infuriated by my own presence in this world.
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Hi!I know you can't help but feel that way. You feel bad about your existence, but remember, everything that is happening in your life has a reason. Maybe the Lord wanted to measure your dad's love to your mom. He accepted all of you because he loves your mom very much and he loves you too. Don't be to hard on yourself.
ReplyPlease don't use a bin existant identity as a reason for why something has happened, that's the biggest bs lie ever....
ReplyBeing told that your primary caregiver isn't your biological family must have been shocking, and therefore I don't think that grows someone into a brat. If anything, your feelings are understandable because you wanted to put distance and acknowledge he is not your biological father. I just want you to know that you are meant to be here, that you belong to a family. Take some time to figure out about how you feel and find support from those who care for you.
ReplyYou need to talk to someone else to come to terms with this shock and come to accepting it. You should never have been told this and then just left alone to figure it out for yourself. Explain to your mum or both of you parents that you need to see a therapist. If they are even half decent people they will agree and pay for the therapy because they have put this problem onto you.
ReplyIt must've been very hard finding that out but everyone makes mistakes. My biological father left me as a child and my brothers dad took care of me until he passed when I was 7 due to his kidneys failing and more health issues. My biological father made me realize that my non biological one loved me in a way my real father never could anyone could be a father but only some are truly dads. I understand it may be very shocking and you can do dna tests to get in touch with your actual father but don't let blood tell you it's stronger than family because blood isn't family no matter how much you think it is. I miss my non biological dad everyday and I'm grateful that I got to spend time with him because my biological father dumped me in the wind because he felt uncomfortable I didn't wanna go out with him rather him come to my house. Hope everything goes well :)
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