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It's a fucking shit show being narcissistically abused and having to put up with people with this personality disorder.
Narcissists will never leave you the fuck alone and be held accountable for ruining your life. It truly never ends with the smear campaign, dehumanizing behaviours,slander, false accusations, gaslighting, manipulation, mobbing, sabotage, crazy making, defamation, twisted truths, humiliation, violation of your privacy, exploitation, blackmail and much more.
They will break laws, commit crimes to fuck up your life and then proceed to blame you for it.
They will do everything in their power to isolate you from others.
Isolating you from friends, family and attempt to destroy you're relationships with them.
They will turn others against you through lies and manipulation.
They will use your vulnerabilities against you to benefit themselves.
They will use psychologically and emotionally abusive tactics to control you.
They will always justify their actions for hurting you and pretend it's actually suppose to help you.
They will blame you and even turn around to say that you're the narcissist.
They will be cowardly by never confronting about a problem and you can forget about them being fair.
They will deny doing any wrong and making it seem like you're crazy.
They will defame and impersonate you by making it seem like you're doing something wrong when you're not.
These people will push you into committing suicide by deliberately making you go crazy and then blame it on your "mental health".
They have ZERO empathy and remorse about hurting you on purpose.
They will never be genuinely honest and take responsibility.
They will justify everything that they're doing towards you and get away with it from their enablers.
They will even get other people to find out information about you by making attempts to terrorize and continue to abuse you.
They will make it seem like you're the bad buy and they're the victim for standing up for yourself and reacting to their abuse.
They get to walk away like you're the one with the problem and needs to be "fixed".
These people won't stop to dig at you until you explode in rage and then use your anger against you.
Honestly, there's so much more I could say but all I could say is I don't fucking trust people anymore because of this.
I don't know what to do anymore with being narcissistically abused.
They've done everything in their power to make feel unsafe, distrustful, paranoid and basically destroying me.
I have nothing left of my life because of this and there's nothing I can really do about it. Nobody believes and nobody seems to be able to help.
There's nothing to really look forward to anymore because I'm drained out of my fucking mind with being abused.
I just don't want to try anymore and I don't care.
Pretty much defeated with constant getting mobbed.
I'm just done being dragged down by others for entertainment. People just trying to make me miserable and helpless.
It's working.
It wasn't enough that they've made me suicidal due to their abuse.
Jesus fucking christ..
_- Jas
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