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So I started dating this guy . We've been dating for a year. When we started dating a few of his friends told him I'm not good enough for him, that he deserved better than me because I wasn't pretty, they labelled and called me names. He came and told me all of this because he wanted to be honest with me. But it hurt me really deeply. Till this day I can't get over it. Some of his friends pair him up with another girl saying they make a better pair, and I hate admitting it but I'm jealous of her because they are pretty close. My boyfriend stopped talking to those friends but he occasionally brings it up once in a while. I would feel good if he told me who these friends were for closure, but he refuses to do so. And it crushes me. I feel horrible for not being good enough and guilty that he had to lose some of his friends. It got so bad that one day one of his friend brainwashed him into thinking he could do better than me. He came and told me because of us being honest with each other. I was already a very insecure person to begin with and this entire thing crushed me. Though it's been quite a while I just can't get over it even tho we both are doing fine now. Everyday it brings me down. There's not a single day that goes by when I don't think about it and judge myself and cry . I'm just tired. I feel ugly guilty and horrible. I just want to feel I'm good enough because I'm giving him my absolute best. What should I do? Am I overthinking? Is it justified? Please help me. Thank you for reading
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Sounds like they are all pretty vain. I ended my relationships because they were not what I was looking for. No offense but not at all what I would settle for.
ReplyAlso would you really want someone who let's others choose his friends or partner?
ReplyYou are not someone's opinion.
ReplyHey you can't stop people from judging you and I know you know that. Even if you were like PERFECT in every way, people would still judge you. There are many people in our world who are just simply bad. You can't change them. And buddy, the only solution to your problem is to tell your boyfriend, what you said here. Be HONEST like him. You are giving your absolute best, you said, and I believe you. Whatever you do in life, you fail or succeed, only one thing matter. That you tried your BEST. You know I think you can still do a teeny tiny bit more though. Being honest :) Come out and tell him how you exactly feel about this whole situation. And hey, people will call you all sorts of bad words, even if you are totally the opposite. They say things they want to believe, because their own lives are upsetting and they want to upset other people's life too. This whole name calling you is not about YOU, it's honestly about them entirely. So come out to your guy. Be honest, and then you will be giving you 100% :)
ReplyThank you . It means a lot
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