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i've been together with my first boyfriend for 6 months now. and i've been thinking a lot lately. is it wrong to feel like there is someone better for me? i met him online and we only went on like two dates before he asked me to be his girlfriend. and i think that since it was my first time with a boy i didn't really think about it that much. i knew i enjoyed being with him, but now that i think about it, i really don't know if i only liked the attention. i know i make him a lot happier than he makes me. and though i'm starting to feel like i don't really have feelings for him anymore, i just can't break up with him cause i don't want to hurt him like that. he keeps telling me how i've made his life so much less miserable and how glad he is that he met me. and i just can't relate and it's awful. i know this was all over the place, but does someone have any advice on what i could do?
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Don't continue this relationship ,it will harm both of you in long run, meet your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and breakup, Good for both of you
ReplyIn the long run you’re not responsible for him. Whenever I had that feeling, I knew it was probably time for me to exit the relationship. Don’t stay where you’ll be unhappy
ReplyI've been there luv, the relationship with my first boyfriend began after very few dates and he moved much faster than I did. He always seemed far more into me than I was him and as time went by I realized I was more into the feeling of getting attention and being loved than I was into him. Ultimately, this relationship will be unhealthy for both of you. You should not be with someone who doesn't truly make you happy and he shouldn't be with someone who can't (and should not feel obligated to) return the feelings he has for you. In the end, you're hurting him more by staying when you aren't happy then by letting him move on. Furthermore, from what you've written, it sounds like he needs some time on his own to learn to be happy and content without relying on someone else to make him happy and less miserable. It's also important to remember that your first boyfriend rarely lasts forever so its completely normal to need to move on and find someone you can truly be happy with. It's okay to lose feelings and its time to let him go. Be gentle but clear about it being the end, let him go learn to be happy on his own and find someone who can return his feelings. Go find someone who is right for you. You'll both be so much better off if you do.
Replytbh, i had this feeling with my bf now of 9 months. i was thinking that around the time of 4 months but i think the difference between our two scenarios is i knew i loved him i just had a lot of doubts. I suggest maybe getting to know him more, but if you really arent happy then dont stay
Replyi've been in that situation as well, but i the relationship had been a shorter amount of time than yours, and I knew that what I had to do was end things. just tell him how you feel and be completely honest with him. in my situation, my ex wasn't in a good mental state so I didn't want to break up with him because I didn't want to hurt him more and put him in an even worse situation than he was already in, and the only thing I regret about the end of our relationship is how I told him. I told him that I needed to focus on school in attempt to not hurt his feelings, and maybe we could try again in the future, when in reality that wasn't what I wanted. I just wanted to end things but I was too scared to actually do it. That led to him coming back a couple months later asking if "I was ready yet," which of course, I said no and his feelings were hurt even more. so i would just say end things and tell him that you just weren't feeling it. just tell him the truth. :)
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