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I have no idea what I am doing with my life at this point. I am in my senior year in high school and I feel like I wasted all my years. I have no idea at what university to go. I have no idea what career to choose. I have no Idea what I am good at. I have no motivation to do anything. I sleep all the time. I am tired all the time. I think I mainly have 3 friends in my life but I am close just to one but even to her I can't say many things because she has her problems and I don t want to make her feel bad for me or something. I tried once to say that I felt lonely and she told me she will stay with me "until I find my people" and I promptly felt like shit. I m not the most social person and she s the opposite and I don t know she just made me feel like she s just being my friend because she pities me.
I don t even know why I started writing here. I am just feeling really really tired. People in my family and friends view me as someone who doesn't really need affection. And in my group of friends I see them always giving each other hugs and shit and it's just painful because sometimes I just wish there was someone who could just give me a hug and make me feel like i belong here.
I don't know I just i don't know.
I am not good at expressing myself. I have thought about killing myself but then I think that there are so many things I didn't experienced, so many things I want to do, to see but I have no motivation to do so. I feel like i am stuck. I feel like i m literally stuck in this life, the time is moving but I m not i m just the same.
I really don t know.
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It’s perfectly okay if you don’t know what you want to do in life. You still have your whole life ahead of you. I didn’t know what I wanted to do either when I graduated high school. I switched majors a couple of times and worked different jobs. I know many people who have too. There are also people who go back to school later in life because they discovered what they wanted to do and study, and there’s nothing wrong with that. If community college is an option to you, it’s a good place to take general Ed classes and extra classes that may spark your interest for a cheaper tuition. You can always transfer to a university when you’re ready. Also try taking a career test if you haven’t yet. Research about different careers. Work different jobs and put yourself out there. You’ll see what you like and don’t like over time. We all have our different journeys to travel at our own pace. Life isn’t a race after all.
If you don’t have someone to share what you’re going through, don’t hesitate to share it on here. And don’t be afraid to initiate hugs with family and friends. I’m a painfully shy person person with social anxiety, but I love hugs. I’m sure most people wouldn’t deny a hug either. I send you my virtual hug!
ReplyHi. Surprisingly Im a senior too! But you said you don’t know what to do with your life, and I can relate to most of this so I have a few suggestions myself.
1.) As for figuring out what you want to do with your life, is there something you like to do? Pastimes? If not, think about how you want to impact the world. Do you want to save people’s lives? Be a doctor of some sort. Do you want to socialize the youth? Be a teacher. Do you want to set things right in where you live? Go for a position in government! There’s a lot of more examples but we’ll stop here for now.
2.) In terms of people, I relate to this and yeah my social life equally sucks and my family is not so great either and you can only shove so much away. Try to be the happiest you can when you’re around your friends. Spend those moments and yes, ASK FOR HUGS.
Everything in time cannot be healed right now, but I hope it gets better for us🙏
ReplyYou sound like you are tired and depressed so please see a doctor as soon as possible.
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