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My boyfriend and me have been dating for 8 months. Due to the pandemic now we don't get to meet. We both have exams coming up so the amount of time we text also has reduced considerably. I know it seems normal but I overthink a lot. Now I'm paranoid and think he lost interest, or he doesn't like me that much anymore. I did ask him once too and he said he still in love with me but I just don't know!! It just doesn't feel like before and I hate it!! I love him very very much and I don't wanna lose him. Am I actually overthinking or is it something else? Thank you for reading
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Meet him after your exams and fill in the gaps. You'll know if something is different. I'm no expert in this but I feel you should take his word for now. You being paranoid will make things worse for you and for him. You could do something special for him when you meet him.
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ReplyThis is actually a very common thing in relationships, especially during a pandemic❤️ This doesn’t mean he loves you any less, and if you love each other that’s what counts. I’m currently going through the same thing, we have been dating for over 10 months now and yes, it’s not the same as it was right now, but realize that both of you are probably going through extreme stress and aren’t in the same mental place as you were when the relationship started. The best thing you can do is communicate with your boyfriend in a mature and respectful way, give him reassurance when he needs it, and realize that while it is tempting to become spiteful and bitter towards him for not paying the same amount of attention towards you as he used to, or seemingly not caring, that simply is not the best way to ease tension between you. Think of it like this, your tension or hurt or frustration whatever it might be is a tight knot, your on one end and your boyfriend on the other, one of you has to be the first to stop pulling tighter and let go, and the knot will begin to unravel itself. Showing that grace and compassion towards one another and realizing that both of you have valid real reasons to be upset and trying to be understanding or even giving the person space when they need it is your best option. It’s hard but we’re all in it together❤️
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