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It’s about my boyfriend. As much as I love him, there’s a couple of things that are starting to make me question our relationship.
1. He called me dramatic for being anxious about something and when I became upset about him calling me that, he said “wow you’re being- nvm.” Why can’t he respect my feelings?
2. He doesn’t talk to me as frequently anymore. Sometimes he will leave me on delivered for up to 6 hours in the middle of the day and his excuse is he was “sleeping” or “watching his favorite show”. I don’t think that’s an excuse to not respond for hours on end. Also he rarely texts me first anymore.
3. He is passive aggressive and hostile. We’re teenagers and use Snapchat, on his story, sometimes he’ll post really angry things like the other day he said “f*ck off. Everyone who thinks they want to talk to me, f*ck you”. These angry outbursts are concerning.
5. He teases kids with mental disabilities and he also likes trump.
PLEASE SOMEONE HELP, he’s a good kid besides that stuff and although I have talked to him about this stuff, he ignores it or calls me dramatic. I don’t like what our relationship has turned into, I miss how it used to me. If anyone can offer advice I would really appreciate it
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I don't know how long you have been together but it sounds like you have probably wasted enough of your time on him. Trust me when I tell you that things rarely get any better. As much as I thought I loved my boyfriend, I wish that when I was a teenager someone would have told me, "He's an asshole, he doesn't deserve you." or "You can do better," or even just, "Your in an unhealthy relationship." The first couple of months were good but then it was all downhill from there and I wasted 4 years of my life just because I had convinced myself that I was so in love with him that I couldn't live without him.
You should dump him, he's an asshole and you can do better. Don't worry you'll survive without him.
ReplyMy advice is to dump him. He is immature. Wait until you have left school and are more mature yourself and looking for a life long partner. Then bother about getting into a relationship. What is wrong with him liking Trump? What does that have anything to do with this? He can like who he wants.
Replypeople who still support trump are ignorant. they agree with everything trump says, and everything trump says is either false, repetitive, racist, bigotry, or just disrespectful. people who like trump tend to have similar ideas as him which is dangerous and i’m sure that’s what the original author of the post meant.
ReplyThink it’s dangerous to stay with someone who can “like who he wants”, when the Who is someone dedicated to the maltreatment and suppression of others
ReplyLeave him. LEAVE. HIM. Trust me, you are just looking for that one little glimmer of hope that is going to make you stay. Let him know how you feel. Be honest, but short and to the point. Someone who truly loves and cares for you will want to spend time with you. They will want to reply as soon as they get your message. Take it from someone who has been in this type of relationship before and in plenty of other TOXIC relationships, you want to leave. Focus on yourself for a bit. Fall in love with yourself. There is better out there and you deserve so much better.
ReplyJesus he sounds terrible. Do not fall in the love with his potential to be a “good kid”, sis, he isn’t being good to you and you’re under no obligation to stay when he’s like this. Save yourself the time and the hurt, cut him off
ReplyAlso he sounds straight up manipulative for calling you dramatic. You absolutely don’t need that
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