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If you want to talk to someone, go right ahead and try. You must be willing to accept the fact they may not want to talk to you or even want the same things as you. This is crucial to remember for the benefit of yourself but also the person. Rejection is part of life and for most part it is a learning experience for next time. You cannot force something with anybody, these types of things need to be of mutual interest or else how would it work or last? Remember it’s two people, not one, if one gives all and the other doesn’t want it, you must accept that no matter how you feel, to let it go and move on. Please don’t try and force anything because you will end up doing something stupid and costly for yourself and the other person.
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That's really a kind advice. And it's so so true. We can't make others feel the way we want them to feel. Even though it hurts even though they wld never care or even think about our feeling and that how much they have hurt us. Accepting is the only solution.
ReplyThis is right.
ReplyThis is right, i was thinking this when I deicded to send someone a request and understood what would happen. I try my best to do things and also keep in mind that everyone is different and i should respect their choices. And i try to not force anything to happen because if something is real you dont have to force anything.
ReplyI so much want to take this advice, but I can't. I have my limitations, and the other party is also ignoring me or is very busy. I don't know.
ReplyIf they are busy they should be able to tell you and that should help settle things. There is such a huge gap between being busy and being ignored. Busy gives you a reason to not be able to talk but the other person should be told to help ease them and it takes no longer than a minute to say you are busy I will talk to you whenever I can. Being ignored is just cruel on the person being ignored and its a shame to think that it can get to that stage between you and someone you care about. I feel that you just have to ask and see what is going on. I know how tough it is if it is the bad side of the draw. But the only person who is gonna get hurt is the person who is hanging on to something that just may not be there anymore. It will hurt and it will take time to get through it but honestly you get through it once you try your best to learn and accept things that aren't in your control.
ReplyThat's the best reply and Advice I got. If only she could see my suffering and what I feel for her.
ReplyYou just got to go for it, even though it could be the scariest thing you do it will help to have some closure or definitive answers. I really hope everything works out in the best way for you
ReplyYes,it is true. We can't really force someone to choose us. Thankyou for your kind advice : )
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