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I didnt see that coming. At all.
I thought you were coming over to talk, but you came over to end things. You had such conviction in the way you thought. You werent looking for a conversation, you were looking to talk out all your frustrations and leave.
Anytime I brought up something that bothered me, you told me I needed to change my perspective on what was happening.
If something was bothering you, it was something I needed to change about myself.
Did I ever ask you to change? Did I ever tell you, you werent enough in some way? Do you think that I was the only flawed person in this relationship? That you were unflawed?
The answer is no. But I accepted the things I did not like, as part of you. Because I wanted you as a whole. I recognized that people come in packages, and you dont get to pick and choose.
You couldnt do that for me.
I get emotional when I'm upset? I need a few minutes to have my breakdown and then I can have rational thoughts? You know anything I say during my emotional breakdown is unintentional? I'm not cursing or screaming, just being petty and passive aggressive, and thats too much for you? Are you serious?
You cannot see past 2MINUTES of a freakout to the rest of me? THAT is your dealbreaker?
THAT is how I broke your trust? By having emotional reactions? Not everyone is cool and logical as you. Not everyone can just cool off and come back. You're supposed to be there for me. You're not supposed to have me cool off somewhere else, and come back to you when I'm rational and normal again. What kind of boyfriend asks that?
You cant accept me at my worst, so why do you deserve me at my best.
Every single day I have tried to be the best girlfriend I can to you.
I never asked you to change. I'm not changing for you.
You came over, and just came AT me. You didnt listen to my concerns, you only talked about yours. Anything I brought up, was "I didnt mean it that way" or "No but its different from what you do because"
I was trying to show you we both have irks with each other, that we arent perfect. But you think your flaws are "me just needing to change the way I look at things" and that my flaws are "things I need to seriously change about myself"
You cant give me the same empathy you ask from me for yourself.
You keep saying its something we go over and over again, but maybe thats just who I am.
I will always strive to be the best version of myself. I will not water down my emotional side to fit you better.
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