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Hi everyone
I was with someone in the past couple months (since april). We were so perfect at the beginning. We was so caring and loving and the feelings were so true. Lately he's been acting weird. We were supposed to see each other one day and he didn't say anything about cancelling the date . He just left me there waiting for him to show up. And ignored my texts.
I spoke to him the next day but he kept telling me that he had problems. After that he told me that he needs time cause he feels lost in his thoughts. I said okey. But then the next day he spoke to me like we're normal friends. I mean not even a lovers. He was doing this for some days . And yesterday i told him that if he needs time to think he better go figure out what he needs and that i'd rather not talk to him than keep talking as friends. But he acted so cold and told me "okey then don't talk" and just left with no explanation
I feel lost now i don't know what to do and i kinda feel a depression coming
Help me please with ur thoughts
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Hey I may not be the best person to give advice coming from someone who has made a lot of mistakes in life but also as someone who has cheated (which I deeply regret I still have tons of remorse now even though coming clean to my boyfriend who still accepts me.) I'm not saying your SO or close friend is doing this but I may know a few reasons why they're acting this way.
One could be that they're a bit lost at the moment and only they themselves can get themselves out of that hole and realize they're hurting others around them.
Two he could be trying to figure out their feelings for you. He may think he's not good for you and push you away. Or he could be pushing you away because he's not sure if he likes you a lot so he gets all mad about it.
Three he could be bipolar they can be nice and lovey dovey to mean the next
Four he may be talking to someone else or just dating in general trying to figure out who he likes so he could be overwhelmed.
And five maybe he loves some of the things you guys do together but at the same time just feels he's not right for you it can be for multiple reasons and maybe he just knows it's not you and doesn't wanna hurt you along the way.
And six you know the quote "Right person wrong time" that could also be a factor. BUT I need you to do something for yourself and him. If he keeps doing this for more than a month or if you're just tired of it tell him to get himself together. Talk to him. Tell him that you're confused if he likes you or not and that he's either gonna tell you everything and if not you'll be his friend but you won't stick around and let yourself get broken for someone like that. If they are willing to ditch you and not tell you why (unless it's a emergency) they're just asses. Go wrap up in a blanket, make yourself your favorite food, watch netflix or anything you like to watch and take yourself a few days for you. Pamper yourself and go on walks. But I am begging you PLEASE don't think you can fix someone who's gonna do you dirty like that unless they themselves are wanting to work on themselves. I dated a drug dealer who I thought I could "Fix" he ended up breaking me piece by piece he was so sweet but so bad like this at the same time. Make it known that you aren't gonna wait for a man to love you and that he's either gonna talk to you or you're not gonna be a lover of his anymore. Don't hurt yourself like that <3
ReplyHe doesn't want you and hasn't told you why. Try to at least get an explanation from him. Go find someone else. He isn't worth it.
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