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my boyfriend of 3 years, who also took my virginity. Ive met all of his family literally, everyone at his job and college knows about me. But we were on a bad term and we just kept arguing. He ended up cheating on me nd texting a girl that she was so fine and stuff. The girl never replied but she lives in the same state as us and has like 40k followers on Instagram. I want to forgive but idk if I should.
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Hello
Its been awhile since I wrote on this... what are your opinions on cheating? Is it forgivable or an automatic ending....
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Does my male friend want to have an affair with me?
I so just met this guy from a new course I've started to take a few months ago and we kinda meet every now and then, I told him I ahve a boyfriend from the star...
you shouldnt
ReplyYou can forgive from a distance. Don't make the same mistake that I did and stay with the jerk. I got hurt worse the second time around than I did the first. Dump him. Forgive from another house.
ReplyI understand this differently:
1. He cheated on you by texting another girl, in this case I think you should try to make up with him, if he doesn't want to change, leave him.
2. He had sex with another girl and is texting another girl, in this case, dump this asshole asap.
ReplyAfter is happened, he wouldn't let me even leave the room and kept begging me and apologizing and saying he was sorry. Since its happened hes been doing everything in his power to show me he loves me. Bringing me flowers and food, calling me every chance he gets, taking me out, texting me fast, letting me know when hes leaving and where to, asking if I wanted access to all his passwords. I see real change and when it happened I could feel how much he regretted it. But I also don't want to just be dumb for him.
ReplyBreak up with him and then see if he gets another girl in no time then you'll be proud of your decision.. Just let things go with the flow.. He wants a break up then fine do it.. If he wants to get back then too fine just keep a watch and be mentally prepared for any such thing in future.
ReplyAfter is happened, he wouldn't let me even leave the room and kept begging me and apologizing and saying he was sorry. Since its happened hes been doing everything in his power to show me he loves me. Bringing me flowers and food, calling me every chance he gets, taking me out, texting me fast, letting me know when hes leaving and where to, asking if I wanted access to all his passwords. I see real change and when it happened I could feel how much he regretted it. But I also don't want to just be dumb for him.
ReplyMove on with your life. No matter how much he begs you. Walk out of this situation with your head held high.
And the popular girl? Was just a fling? She can have all of him now if that's what she wanted. No, don't send her a text or nothing.
Just leave him.
If his friends approach the subject or act as if they liked you as a couple, don't feed them. They just want gossip.
Replyshe didn't even reply to him. and when I looked in his phone that was the only bad thing that I saw
ReplyMaybe he is begging cause he is unable to find anyone else and that girl might not have given what he wants . Are you sure he is with you because of love or lust or just because he can't have anyone else so he is with the best option. Are you an option for him.
Replyyoure completely right. and I honestly do think its love because we've been through a lot... lust wouldn't be the thing keeping us together I don't think. and no honestly ive walked away from him before, it didn't last but he knows that I will leave.
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