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People have said I am ugly to my face. People have just laughed about things that they know hurt me. I dont get it. Why are more and more people becoming so rude? Why do they not want to spread happiness? I have never wanted to ever upset a person on purpose. It hurts me if I do hurt someone and of course I have hurt people and I am not an angel. But being cordial is basic manners. This is so random I know, but why do people do that?!
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There are many reasons people do it. We all know the often told reason is that, that person is going through something themselves. Maybe it makes them feel better to know they are not the only one hurting, so if they can see someone else hurts too maybe they can feel a little better. Of course it doesn't actually make them feel better. Aside from that a person could be jealous. There are many other reasons as well. I have thought like this too, so I understand your feeling. I can not say I have been made fun of to my face (only by family), but it still hurts to see it done to other people as well. With this I just tried to stop understanding why. Instead I just do what is right. If I see someone being looked down on I usually try to stop this. We can not know what is going through another persons head, so do not stress yourself trying to figure them out. Just be the good that the world needs.
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ReplyPeople have said I'm ugly to my face too and my 14 yr old self internalized and accepted it but now when I look back I see their jealousy, projection and pathetic self-hate. They hurt others because they are hurt but they're too cowardly to face themselves, so they suppress their damaged core and try to hurt others so they can make others feel the way they feel. They can't stand other people's happiness. The moment they see how they've hurt a person, they get an ego boost that feels like happiness to them but it's very fleeting, so they keep on hurting people so they can constantly feel better about themselves. The only solution is to completely cut contact with them.
Stay strong :))
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