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I've been playing Roblox for almost three months now, and I've made some pretty amazing friends along the way. However, there's this one guy in particular that I'm extremely close to. Even though we don't know each other in real life, we are best friends. He's always there for me when I need him, and overall he's such a nice guy. I first met him a few weeks ago in Meep City, where he saved me from a group of bullies who were cursing me out and saying nasty things to me. But the same day this happened is also the same day when he told me that he likes me. I casually mentioned to him that I had a boyfriend, and he accepted it and said he was ok. Then, he confessed to me again last Friday. He asked me if I was taken, and I said yes. He basically gave the same response he had before: "It's ok." However, things went a little different today. I was playing Family Life (a roleplay game) and we happened to see each other. We said hi and just talked to each other for a little while, but then he brought me to his house and said we needed to talk. He asked if I had a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then, he told me he likes me (again) and asked me if I like him or not. I told him that I like him as a friend, but I didn't like him the way he likes me. He then said that it hurt him, but he was ok. He had never said he was hurt the last two times this happened. Then he started crying (he was doing the crying emojis, but I was doing them too) and he was very upset. I told him I was sorry for breaking his heart, and he said he understood that I meant it when I apologized, but he was still upset and he said that he liked me and only me, and that he would never get over me. We were then hugging in the streets, and then this girl comes over and thinks we're in the middle of a make out and says "awwww". Then he told her we were just friends, but then I told her that he liked me, and he said "yes I do." I became friends with this girl, and then we both became friends with another girl. Well, it just so happens that the girl who approached me and my guy best friend- she had a crush on him! She repeatedly kept saying that she loved him (because his avatar is not bad looking) and so she and the other girl went over to him to tell him she liked him. Of course, he rejected her and told her he "only likes one girl, who is his best friend" (he was referring to me). She got really upset and came to me and asked me who he likes. Then I told her that he liked me and only me. This apparently made her upset, and the other girl was trying to get him to say that he liked her, but he wouldn't do it. Then I came to him, told him I had to go, and that I loved him as my best friend. He told me he loved me too. I feel bad for breaking his heart. I'm not going to unfriend him, and I'm not going to break up with my boyfriend for this guy. Any advice? *I tried venting about this on Muttr, but all I got were nasty and hateful comments.*
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Hey there, I guess I'll be your first advice. My advice to you is to tell him directly about how you feel and don't even dare to sugarcoating it. Tell him that you only like him and see him as a friend. Tell him that you want to stay with you current boyfriend. He should know that he should be respecting your boundaries and your decision. If he actually does like you, he should respect you and about your feelings. I hope this helps.
ReplyThank you for your advice, it really means a lot. <3
ReplyNo problem <3
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