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I'm in love with a person who's good friends with me and enjoys interacting with me on a daily basis, we are super compatible, we finish each others' sentences, I think we even have chemistry but despite all that he still doesn't view me romantically. I confessed to him once and he said he felt the same but after a few weeks he said he didn't want this to get weird and that we're good friends and he doesn't wanna hurt me and he may not be feeling quite what I'm feeling. We were never together. I kinda wish we could be though. I feel butterflies in my stomach whenever I see him but he's not romantically or sexually initiative in any way, shape or form. I feel the need to hug him, touch him, even kiss him but he doesn't have all these needs. He's either not into me or really scared/nervous about relationships. Which would make sense because I think he lacks experience. What do you think I should do?
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wait for him until hes ready. It will hurt, but try to let it go.
ReplyYeah I'm doing that but idk when to quit. Like, when do I give up? what if he's never ready. then I'd have to move on right? what if I can't move on? what if I don't want to move on? How do I know when it's the time to let it go?
Replythere are two ways you can go about this. wait, and risk him never reciprocating your feelings, or" move on "
I'm putting it in parenthese bc from personal experience, people who choose option 2 never are satisfied.
But hey, I'm just a stranger on the internet, so get a second opinion.
ReplyI think I wouldn't be satisfied if I chose the second option either. Thank you! You may be "just a stranger on the internet" but your words really helped me organize my thoughts. It was sort of a reassuring thing. Thanks again.
ReplySettle to be friends with him. This is better than nothing so value the friendship.
ReplyHe acts so clueless sometimes I just can't. I know it's better to be at least friends but when you need more, you need more.
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