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its been 25 hours and 26 minutes since we last talked and you're ignoring me just because I said "goodbye". Your phone was at 1% it was about to die and you didn't have a charger so i said "bye" and you got mad. Real mature of you to ignore me just because i said goodbye. Look i know you're mad but if you really love me you would just drop it because you clearly got mad over nothing. All i said was bye. What do you expect your phone was about to die i wouldn't want to be there texting you waiting for a reply when you know you would not be able to answer. You got mad at ME for saying 1 word do you really think that's mature?? really think about it because i want to talk to you and you said your phone was dying and i said "bye" and then i said "i love you text me when you can" and you got mad. Real mature D what a good boyfriend you are for lashing out at your girlfriend for saying bye.
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He sounds like a poopyface. He seems really unreasonable. Like when someone says their phone is gonna die, WHAT ELSE ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO SAY?
Replyright
Replyhe seems insecure - just something to ponder on
ReplyI agree, I used to be the same way back when I was super insecure.
Replyokay, so you do understand that the way he acts isn't anything you did wrong. it's not your fault. you need to sit down with him and have like a mature conversation about the way he is making you feel. If he can't respect that, then he's definitley not worth it!
ReplyI'd agree with this, to an extent. Yes, he absolutely should respect your need to converse about the issue.
Though I don't honestly believe that it'll do much good. Coming from a guy who used to be that way, there's really only one way he is going to change and it's not something you can control.
Going based off my own experience with it, he may very well hear you out and improve for a while. But he will almost certainly revert back to this stage that he is in right now.
It's a mix of severe insecurity, control issues and he may even feel jealous or threatened. That doesn't mean that this has to be your problem.
You absolutely have every right to walk away from this as he is currently expressing toxic traits and if you really wanna give him a swift kick in the right direction, your best bet to do so may be to leave. Tell him exactly why you're leaving, if you do.
You're not his possession, your his partner. Now you can try to satiate him by ensuring him that you're not going anywhere, if that's the road you wanna take.
Either which way, I'd strongly advice to keep your eyes open and peeled for any further red flags.
If he starts being overly harsh, inconsiderate or down right mean, I'd absolutely encourage you to leave asap.
He may threaten to harm himself or even you or your family, which he almost certainly won't follow through with. But that's later stages, if you let it continue.
Replysuper interesting to hear your advice to this girl from a guys perspective!
Replythank you so much
ReplyYou are with a child.
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