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I cry after every time he touches me. I know he doesn't mean to force me but I don't know how to tell him to stop. I love him so much but im just not ready yet. I know he cares about me and I know he'd stop if I told him to but I don't know how. He just makes me really nervous sometimes and I guess I just have to talk to him about it but I don't like to feel vulnerable and talking about it makes me feel vulnerable so I don't know what to do..
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If he isn't listening to your no then it isn't love.
ReplyStop trying to blame the victim in sexual assault.
ReplyLook up grooming....That is the beginning of sexual assault.
Sexual assault victims....always remember it was NOT your fault.
ReplyTry talking to him. Be firm. Tell him to stop and that you don't feel comfortable with it. He shouldn't be mad. He should be happy you stood up for yourself and hopefully he realizes what he's done. Much love and hope to you man. Good luck from Illinois. <3
ReplyI totally agree here. Adding on: If you know he cares about you and he'll stop if you tell him, maybe you can try to trust him when you talk about how you feel even if it doesn't make sense. Sometimes feelings don't make sense and that's okay. Give yourself a chance to be scared and vulnerable in telling him, if anything it'll make you guys that much closer. Thanks for sharing and good luck !
ReplyYou need to talk to him. Remember that it isn’t your fault. I understand your reasons for not wanting to tell him, but you have to. This isn’t ok. Trust me, I let things happen that I wasn’t comfortable with. I realized later that he had sexually harassed me. DONT be like me. I never told him what was wrong. Do the right thing not only for yourself but also for the relationship. If he doesn’t understand then leave. I know it’s hard but if he keeps doing it after you tell him how you feel when he touches you, then he’ll never respect you as a person or as something more.
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