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What do you do when a man you never saw coming enters your life? A man that would give you the world, moon, stars and universe because he sees something in you that the men you truly desire, fail to see. This man has and continues to prove to you that he understands your worth, acknowledges your existence, respects your time, admires your being, and yearns to make you his one and only. In a heart beat, this man has become loyal to you and only you. He says, “only a real man values a woman like you”. Just as you, this man knows your worth, and he won’t fail to show you that. Except, this man didn’t come in the form nor way your expected him to. Do you disregard everything you’ve been praying for in a man for the superficial? Or do you swallow your pride, understand the signs and follow your potential destiny?
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I guess it depends on what you mean by the form or way you expected
ReplyI would say these are only words. Many people can form pretty words and that is all they are.
ReplyPlease excuse the knee-jerk assumption, but if he is much older than you then watch out. This sounds a bit like the standard approach of older men "grooming" young girls by appearing to be rich, kind, generous and perfect.
Ok, assumptions over. If he is what he claims to be, then that's cool. But it doesn't mean it has to be a romantic relationship. Especially if you aren't attracted to him, or if he is somehow not what you are looking for. If all these things he says is true, then he should be content to be your friend. I'd say start there. Don't jump into anything without fully grasping the situation. And it sounds like, from the fact that you're uncertain enough to make a post about him, that there are a lot of unanswered questions. Be friends, for now. If he's The One then he can wait until you get to know him, right?
ReplyMore than likely it is a trick. Of course you are saying everything you think someone wants to hear..so while it may impress some ..others it does not. Besides what I want no one can give me.
For some yes they could fall for this. but would you really want them to?
If you could give them all that you say you can then you should not say so because do you know how many people would pretend to be what you want? That would not be good for you right?
I could see how someone could fall for this...so if you have then do not feel bad I am sure many have.
You should feel like you deserve the world just as you are and no one has to give it to you...in order to deserve it.
ReplyFrom my own personal perspective, I'm generally that guy that you're describing. This kind of "give you everything you want" style of love.
I can also be honest in saying it's usually not all it's cracked up to be. He's still trying to fill a void with this, just as equally as you seem to be.
Now I'm not saying he's gonna go all bonkers on you or anything like that, could be something that feels good and right for several years actually.
But eventually something will change in one of you. Some need not being fulfilled or some desire being overly pursued. It always ends the same way for stories like these. As sad as that may be.
It really depends on you though, are you going to be ok with something that is almost guaranteed to be temporary? If so, then by all means, chase away and allow him to chase you.
At the end of it all, no one else can really say what's right for you and who knows? Maybe things will be alright and you'll get to live this out for the rest of your life. I'd say that's a chance worth taking if you can handle it.
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