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If your male this might make you angry, I'm sorry, but I have to get this off my chest, and you don't have to read it if you like.
I always hated being a girl. Weak, inferior, vulnerable. I feel like a prey. I hate how whenever I vent about the struggles women have, men start making it about themselves and how THEY are the ones who have it harder. Or they make fun of me and tell me to go cry about it and run back to the kitchen. I hate how I will stick up for men when other women complain about them, but men never support women back.
I hate how men gang up online complaining about women and how much they want to kill all women and their reason for this hatred is because they can't get laid, where else the only reason I would see women negative towards men is because of their fear of violence or rape. I hate how men say women are worse then men when most murderers, rapist, etc are men, and the cause of abuse to men is 90% caused by other men. I hate the scary amount of little girls that are harassed, catcalled, or abused by men older then them.
I don't WANT to hate them. It hurts my heart. I don't think any woman could ever hate men, without hurting themselves. But why are men so keen to hating women. Are they just emotionless? Maybe I should just feel sympathy instead of confusion, sadness, anger, and heartbreak. Sympathy that they can't feel a high sense of emotions like I can...
(BTW when I address to men in this rant I don't mean all men #NotAllMen
It's just a personal experience and observations. True story bro)
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Yeah I'll probably get hate from posting this but I am already hurting so bad. I am so confused.
ReplyI understand what you mean, dear :)
As a woman, I can assure you that your statement, "I don't mean all men" is definitely correct.
Generalization is a natural, common human instinct meant to prepare us for threat or give us a specific mindset so that we can draw safe conclusions.
There are men who kill and rape; however, there are more men who risk their lives, fight for the community, and seek revenge/justice.
There are women who verbally and financially abuse and control their spouses or ex-significant others, and then there are more women who cure you psychologically and get you on the right track.
Some fear is natural instinct, and that is OKAY. I totally understand where you're coming from, and your feelings are completely valid.
Just don't let this fear get in the way of your everyday actions, behaviors, and life in general. Whether they're men or women, befriend people based on trust--not anything else.
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