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It's hard. From the start of our friendship she always had a boyfriend. But I still fell for her. I tried forgetting about her by crushing on other girls, but it always led back to her. We do love each other platonically, we are very very good friends, we talk to each other about our problems. We're actually in the same group in the Uni and we are the few people who actually study. I tried forgetting her and during pandemic where i couldnt see her i kinda fell out and was numb mostly. About 2 months ago she became single. and somehow i got hope? but she wasn't in the right mood after breakup , she was mostly crying so i could only comfort her. She also didnt have anyone to talk to about this so i was the one listening to her.. i didnt want to rush in. I think I wont be able to forget her cause she really is a good person and a good friend. I dont want to ruin our friendship, but the lingering hope stresses me out. I do know that she doesnt like me back like that, she doesnt see me as someone who would love her i think. I dont know what to do. Im mostly an introvert person and cant really express my feeling that easyly. the last 2 times i tried asking 2 differnet girls out ended me up crying and depressed. she's cute and i am afraid that even if i find someone, a lingering love will alwasy stress me out...
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Okay so, im terrible at relationship advice, but I think, if I was in this situation, Id tell her how I feel, or just shamelessly flirt with her and see what happens.
Sorry I cant be of any more help, Im bad with advice. :/
ReplyOh man! I understand what you mean. Struggle is that I always fall for straight girls. Dude if your friend isn’t straight, there’s hope for you. Someone else already gave you the options you have, like either tell your friend you like her or flirt with her! Sometimes it works out! I hope it does work out tho! That would be adorable. And if it doesn’t, there’s always more people out there. You’re compatible with more than one person so try not to get hung up on one if it isn’t working out. Then again there’s always hope for you and your friend. Go get her <33
Replyokay, so i can understand what you are going through and i would suggest you to open yourself once she is out of the breakup trauma. express! if you dont you will always have a question in your saying what if it was yes? that will never let you focus on any other relation. if it is true friendship it wont break. trust me express yourself for yourself:)
ReplyWell just saying that i dont have any experience in such things..cuz whenever i do get such feelings..i ignore them, not confess it.
It hella hurts..but thats me. So..i say that u r try..cuz there can be a good ending for both of ya.But not right now as she seems to be in a heartbreak.Be there for her ( atleast ..the girl u love will always be there in front of ur eyes)..And i think..this seems hella romantic :D. Buck up!
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