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So, I have this guy friend I'm really close to. He liked me at first but I didn't so now we're just friends, I've confirmed this with him trust me. I was very clear with my feelings and straightforward and told him if he wants he can just stay away, don't have to force himself to be my friend as I would never have feelings for him. It's been more than a year after that and now we're just good friends, actually very good friends. We're very close and comfortable with each other ( I really like spending time with him but I don't like him in a sexual manner? Feel me? ). I'm not a teen, we're grown up adults in our early 20s. I've never had a boyfriend neither he had a girlfriend so it's not uncommon for him to ask me a thing or two about women. The other night we were talking on the phone and suddenly the topic changed to sex life, Masturbation, porn, sex etc etc. We're both virgins so we haven't done anything, he asked me about female masturbation and stuff. I'm very open about these stuff around the people I'm comfortable with so I wasn't uncomfortable or anything. The talk progressed to pleasures, type of porn we like to watch, how often we masturbate etc. It shifted to us talking about sex chats and me confessing that I've never had a sex chat with anyone. Suddenly he proposed that maybe we should try sex chat sometime. I was quick to tell him no and that it's gonna be awkward as I don't see him that way, I was okay with no strings attached but considering his previous feelings for me I was a bit skeptical. He asked me if I like to read about these stuff, I told him I like reading erotic books on wattpad with a story. He asked me for suggestions which I gave him. He said after reading he'll discuss it with me to which I was like okay fine. Being a woman, single, stuck in home during lockdown everyone has needs. I didn't wanted to stretch the conversation more as I didn't wanted to feel anything cause when you talk about these stuff there's certainly gonna be a reaction in your body. Now I'm confused a little, was it wrong talking to him about these stuff? Will he get any wrong ideas? I'm worried that It'll be awkward or he'll start to think differently and shit. I'm clueless. Help me out please.
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Your conversation has gone to another level and could become really sleazy. If you are uncomfortable with this let him know and change the subject. However, he might return back to this and you could have trouble getting through to him. This isn't a proper conversation.
ReplyI was in this situation once. Then one day, I was frustrated and needed to let it out sexually so I called up the one person who I knew would have sex with me. It was great and very stress relieving, and to this day we are a couple. I didn't see him that way either at first but it's like I developed something different. I do love him, but it's not the typical type of feeling a person has. It's not the butterflies and blushing type, but more of a subtle "I was born to love you and it came naturally" type. If that even makes sense. But anyways, in your situation, do you know if he still likes you in that way? I've had guys that have crushed on me and I turned them down, and they never regained feelings (or so they say). One of these guys is my SO's best friend lol (of course, before the SO and I were together). I don't know if this helps but hopefully it does.
ReplyIt's weird, like I'm comfortable talking about these stuff with him but not doing it with him. I'm just not sexually attracted to him at all, I don't know why but I'm not. He's a good looking guy but still, I'm comfortable to share these stuff with him like I do with my girl friends 😅😅
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