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I really like this guy. I can't explain why but he's just different. There's something about him that just draws me in. Except I can't gather the courage to talk to him and well he's kinda shy as well. He talks to people but whenever I see him he's always alone. He's like a mystery, a closed off book and well I just want to get to know him but I don't know how to approach him without him thinking I'm weird or something. It doesn't help that I'm very awkward either. Either way it's probably too late because the year's almost over and we're going to different schools. I've missed my chance because of stupid shyness.
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Wow I was in the exact same predicament when I was in my junior year of high school. When I got to sit next to this nysterious guy in my spanish class I freaked out. Im also very awkward...so I was basically nervous all the time around him and I felt that he noticed. That didnt help at all. I ended up feeling really exposed when I was around him because of my shyness....and so, as a way to protect myself, I usually stayed pretty quiet, which obviously makes people pretty uncomfortable. We never becams friends, which is sad because thats all I reallt wanted. But that does not mean there isnt hope for you. How I see it, as a shy person as well, is that sometimes its good to step out of your comfort zone, and sometimes you are just not ready for it quite yet. And really, its okay if you think its the latter. You just need a little more time to grow, thats all, and hey, you never know, my mysterious guy decided to finally open up senior year and It turns out that he was actually a douchebag. Anyways, I think that if you really want to get to know this guy, approach him as if you just want to make a new friend. A friend. Also, dont put him on a pedestal (because theres no reason to). That will make you more nervous. Finally, just be yourself. If people dont like that, move on and continue to slay without them. Best of luck.
ReplyExact same situation here :) Just try, I will too. as a shy guy myself, I can only say that I welcome it when people speak to me. Even if I don't look like it. It might be a bit of a surprise though if he/you/i am not used to it, which can make things weird- just give it a try, nobody will care if you try and speak to him or whatever. Especially if you're one of us shy people. We tend to get over-looked, but that can be a good thing ;) Just update when you tried. I will do it too.
ReplyYou should have tried.
"It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return . But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel."
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