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When I was about 4 or 5 an older family member (i'm too scared to say who because i don't want them to see this) made me play this "game" with me where we would both put orange peels in our mouths and kiss with the orange peels in our mouths. I didn't really understand what we were doing at the time but one time they suggested we should do it without the orange peels. so they made me kiss them. this happened multiple times. I'm 16 now and I still think and cry about this a lot. How could they do that to me? At the time they were about 12 but they should've known better. I've never told anyone about this because it would tear my family apart. I'm scared to even be writing about it here but it need to tell someone. Does anyone have any advice as to help me cope? Does this even count as abuse?
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I mean it's a weird story and this person whoever it was sounds totally creepy but it's definitely not abuse. Just stay away from that person.
ReplyExcuse me? How is that not abuse?
Replythey were both underage and she agreed to kiss him
Replyoh, i just re-read it she didn't agree. call the cops that's frekin wrong...
ReplyOkay, listen. You need to drag this person to the daylight. Even if it were the closest family member, you don't need them. Tell the closest trusted family member/relative and figure out how to avoid meeting this person ever again
ReplyWell for starters next time record it
When it happens ,if maybe that person will come into your room and try to force you to conduct in those exercises. Well evidence is better than words as they say .
But if these things were from the last and they haven't done anything like that ever since just act chill or if you are too nervous and too troubled to do so then place a distance from this person
If they asked about your behaviour you can eithier confront thier behaviour nicely and tell how that incident had impacted you sort them out
Or shout fuck you stuff and tell shit off motyerfucker
About the parents issues
I rather you not say well depending on how much your parents love you and all
Ofcourse you would best know this
You can tell them
But most of the time they wouldnt believe or even if they did believe they would tell you to keep your mouth shut about these things
Yes it's an abuse after all child harrassment is still harrassment
Raping a baby just because they dont know how to say A B C would be the same as to what they did
Lastly I know you are scared but try to do some stuff that will divert your attention
Like playing games reading essays some jokes movies or animes would help
Wh but there is the option of being in a relationship with someone but I highly do not reccomend that when you are not emotionally stable you would probably rely too much and that would hurt twice if you broke up later
Forgive me for writing such a long paragraph
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Dont be scared
I am here amd I believe in you no matter what okay
*patting your head*
Sending *hugs*
It's okay to cry
Replyim so sorry this happened to u just know u are strong and brave for posting this....you should try to tell ur mom or whoever u live with cs he could b doing this to other young girls
ReplyI would say it is a form of abuse, because it seems to have been a traumatic event in your life. You should look into talking with someone, possibly a therapist.
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