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I have 2 flings.
Is it bad? I'm not committed I just want to feel something.
These two isn't for long term I know.
But I dont wanna hurt their feelings and I am also afraid to be left behind.
Thanks. AM I SELFISH?
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Do they know its a fling? If not it is okay. I think that most times is sucks to do things at another persons expense. However, it is more important overall to make sure that you are doing what is best for you. Are these flings best for you? Or an unhealthy coping mechanism.
Remember your worth. Remember that others are here for you. And remember that it is normal and even needed to want to feel something. I hope you're doing okay
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ReplyJust be honest and don't deceive anyone... then let the truth set you free.
Best of luck.
Time is more precious than gold; spend it wisely. Since you seem young and unsure (as most of us are during our youth) focus on where you see yourself in 5 years - in a career or still working on a degree. Committed relationships are great if that's what we're looking for, but they will always arrive, especially when we least expect it.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
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