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I don't even know why am i writing here. there's nothing i could do.
I am a stay at home mom and live together with my son and his dad/my boyfriend. Ever since December my boyfriend is home all the time too since he has seasonal work. he's gonna be home at least till end of March and it's becoming suffocating.
I am more of an introvert and before we met I lived alone and loved it. I always need some alone time, I used to go somewhere alone at least once in a month to recharge but because of pandemic, it's not possible now because most hotels are closed and we're struggling financially too.
We love each other but we are quite different and we've been fighting a lot because of constantly being all together. Our son is growing too, he has entered toddler stage and has started to throw tantrums and we fight so much because we have quite different views on how to raise him and im so tired. I cant even go out to drink a coffee like before since everything's closed till April.. we're prohibited to visit friends too, and I feel like im slowly going insane because i don't get a single minute alone. I dont know how will i wait till spring, I feel so miserable.
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I feel you ... I sometimes feel drained aroud people I love too. Fortunately, never with my boyfriend.
You could try to talk to him about this, about how you feel. Tell him that it is not to blame him or that you don't love him but that's just how you are. Tell him you need space sometimes. I'm sure we will understand. At least, if he really loves you.
A great time to spend with yourself too is mindfull meditation, you can read about it :) it has helped me so much.
I wish you the best !
ReplyThank you, I'll keep that in mind!
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