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Hi,
I love and adore my boyfriend so much it literally hurts. I want to be with him all the time, not that I want his full attention 24/7 but just being close to him. I know he loves me but I can’t stop thinking about the past, how he was just a bit sweeter than now. The thought of him with another person makes me cry. I make this scenarios in my head how he really loves someone else and cares for them. I don’t know how to stop, I want to scream to him and show him all my heart but he isn’t really the most romantic person plus I don’t want to call him crying how I am scared and don’t want him with someone else, because I don’t want too be dramatic, annoying and looking like I don’t have a life. Please, help me, because I can’t find anything that would make me feel better and it has been days. It is so painful.
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I think you're just scared he'll leave and that's what's really going on (but again, this is all in your own mind; it doesn't sound like he wants to leave). It might be a sign of underlying trust issues. Perhaps you were neglected as a child or couldn't trust people. And now it's showing itself in this relationship. You have inner troubles that are manifesting as this post
ReplyI don't know how long you've been together but I've always heard that things tend to dim down a bit 6months into a relationship and in my experience its true. Things become a routine, samey and he might become a little quieter, a little distant but I think that's normal.
If you talk to him often about the anxiety you feel (because that's what you're feeling), then he might get scared. There were times when my ex threatened to leave me if I spoke about my anxiety ( I left him because he was a chauvinist) and I had to suppress how I really felt until at some point it I exploded and we had an argument that lasted months and ended up in us separating.
What I'm saying is that try and explain how you feel but stay in control of your emotions. Don't get overwhelmed or start crying because he might react negatively to it (I do not however know your boyfriend so I don't know what kind of person he is). On the other hand, if you explain everything to him, he might react positively. For example, he might comfort and reassure you.
I know this response maybe a little messy but if he truly loves you he will accept any flaws, worries and concerns you may have.
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