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okay right this sounds stupid and i don't know what im doing but i need to write this and maybe get advice so here ig
Literally the every "best friend" or like the main person i depend on always has someone else who they put first
yes i know this sounds so stupid and like im just jealous
and yea maybe it is that, maybe i am jealous maybe im just losing it
but there is always someone above me, I've never had like a "best friend" ive never had anyone they always have someone else and its probably just jealousy
i googled it and was just told "hmm try replacing them" or something but ive got no one to replace them with
in every friendship, im always left out, pushed to the side almost forgotten about and i just am really struggling at this point
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So it depends upon the relationship that you hold with this person. My best friend and my self are both men. Weve known each other since early 2014. Ive done tons of dumb stupid shit with him to the point if we stay up past 3am we wake up every fucker in both our houses cause we start laughing so damn hard our sides hurt. I wouldnt trade him for nothing.
But hes my best friend and im his. But our bond went beyond best friends were brothers. I call him my brother i call his father "dad". We hold conversations with each others family almost weekly or monthly. My mother checks up on him to make sure hes doing good. To me that is my brother even though we look nothing alike.
I have another best friend who is a woman. Our relationship is muddy. She teases me and flirts with me. She does crazy shit with me only a woman could get a man to do. Ive climbed structures and build death machines. I took over an area by myself against a team of four, for bonus exp just to help her level a character she never even touches. But our relationship is 1 year old. I love her, as a best friend and want to see her acquire everything she wants. If i cant help her ill encourage her. i do what little i can do. Shes put me through hell, thats for sure. But id burn the world for her. However im not her best friend.
Out of both of these relationships, She checks on my daily. Send me messages and selfies and quotes. My brother talks to me every night and we talk about the absolute dumbest bs thats ever been spoken on this earth. I value them both. But the truth is you need to replace them, not entirely its not to say you cant be friends. but who you consider your best friend is someone that youll be with more then likely for the rest of your life. Ive had some bad fights with my brother some days it seemed we was growing apart so very far. but we talked it out and beat the hell out of another and said shit our bad. Dont push so much of yourself into someone who wont even bother to give you a moment of their day. Your as human as me, even though i see my self as less then first place that doesnt mean i have to be last. Neither should you.
ReplyHad to double check and make sure I didn't somehow write this cause DUDE, I'm literally you right now. I've never really been the first choice, sometimes not even the second. My "best friend" only calls me when they KNOW I'm asleep and unavailable, they have an attitude when I don't answer like, maybe text me next time! Whether you sound jealous and are doesn't matter, if they made you feel close enough to count as best friends, they should treat you as such. Maybe try just having a friend you talk to every once in a while, gradually, you'll get close and trust me, it's sooo much better that way. If you depend on one person to be your best friend, you're having high expectations for them and that causes you to be hurt when they don't see you the same and they don't meet your expectations.
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