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I’m really looking for opinions. My partner says sometimes he just needs to get away and clear his head alone. Fine and dandy I suppose although I find it weird. Recently (Feb 14) he decided to take off for 2 days and sleep in his vehicle. I traced him and he really did sleep in his vehicle. He was not out cheating or anything like that, he refused to talk and refused to communicate. After he came to his senses 2 days later (in reality I think he just wanted to shower and use a normal bathroom) he came home and told me that he needed to clear his head and this was normal to just take off and do this. Personally I think he needs some professional help as do a few others but I’m starting to wonder if he is right and we are all wrong? Tonight he came to my place of work and an argument ensued about his internet usage on his phone and he got in his vehicle and drove away, went home and said nothing all night. Keeps calling me his master whenever we communicate over text though. I think he needs some help.
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I retreat sometimes also when I get upset; it is akin to having a volatile ordinance, placing it far away, then either disarming or detonating it from afar where no one gets hurt. My first impression is high sensitivity from past traumas; as for his direct addressing during his episodes, it could be a form of self roleplay to enter a frame of mind he finds stabilizing. Acts of love can ease someone into a place where they feel safe to express however best they can how they feel. One question I would ask when able, "Is 'Master' used as an endearment, a metaphor?" His mannerisms remind me of a cat, which I have been compared to also. Two things that calm me down: Warm food and hugs. I would talk to him about your observations, how they make you feel, then ask his observations and how they make him feel; he may be open to talking to someone, but in my experiences, a loved one willing to listen reaches deepest. You will do great, give your big cat a hug, tell him you love him, and remember also that we love you *hug*
ReplyIf he calls you his master he thinks you are too bossy and maybe too controlling.
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