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Hello,
I have been in a serious relationship for three years now. We have been kind of struggling for some time now, because he feels strong need to have sex with other people. I told him that hurts me and he said, he doesn’t want to have this need. He asked me to help him and I gladly would. I am very interested in human mind and want to explore this. Do you have any suggestions on good videos, podcasts, books etc. about this topic?
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im a guy and had thi problem before, but i did not want to hurt mt gf so I broke up with her. I relized how much I loved her so I went back to her. I tried not to do anything and she eriouly out did her self, he tried doing it with me everyseccond. She did things I had no idea she could do, not onlt that but she made me fall in love with her more. She made me go out with her to the mall every 2 weeks and I bought her an outift i think would look amazing on her and she did the same for me. She would order us food. And one time she even played with me on the xbox and learned how tf to play. I guess what Im saying is that for this to work between you and ur bf. He needs to try bc he loves u and u need to try a lit bit harder just for the time being. He wants sex. Make him see that u have the bet sex and he can not get anyone like that. Make him love u more.
ReplyBe careful - the polyamorous thing rarely works - those 2 pesky little things called "love" and "jealousy" usually ruin it. Apart from that; if he is really and truly open to polyamorous lifestyle then he should certainly be open to you finding love and intimacy in other places. If he's not open to you being ravished by other guys then he's playing you - the classic "wants his cake and to eat it too".
Intertwined in all this, as well, and perhaps most importantly, is STDs and pregnancies, very real consequence of promiscuous sex.
Best of luck in your next steps.
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