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So, I am a 24-year-old girl who is working currently at a design agency. I often get scolded at work due to mistakes as a new trainee. I do not know how to let go of such thoughts or not to take things personally. I think I am not capable of the job. I am awful, not loyal, and always afraid to commit. I am in fear which leads me to do more mistakes. I am a naive person from the inside out. I do not intend to hurt anyone's feelings or disobey them. I feel like not being that alert or aware of the situation of a particular job project and about the co-workers at the place. I do not know how to deal with mental stress. I always thought negative thoughts help build self-esteem. Frankly speaking, a majority I get negative comebacks and less time positive comebacks. I do not know how to appreciate myself when I have achieved something. I do not know how to be proud of myself. I always accept the mistakes I had made, I feel I am truthful but I also feel I am not ready to face the world.
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There is a lot of thinking about you going on here. You are in this situation to give and get what is possible. What exactly occurs does not define you. You are quite ok as you are and the way you may change. There are no rules. Maybe this is not the job for you.
Bottom line is that as long as you live, things will be happening that affect you. Some of it will be pleasant, some will not, and most of the effects will not be permanent. Outcomes you experience are unpredictable because they emerge from the combined range of probabilities for you and the other people and factors involved. Acceptance, forgiveness, and optimism allow you to tolerate, learn from, and then ultimately move past disturbing situations and events. You do not have a life, Life has you. You are what Life is doing right where you are, right now just like splashing water drops with moving waves is what the ocean is doing. Every encounter is an opportunity to go with Its flow and not resist. You are perfect and are in the process revealing this. It takes time and can be a little messy along the way. Don't forget to laugh when you get the chance.
ReplyThank you so much. It is just me going through a lot and being overwhelmed by many things right now. I get scared about being judged or overwhelmed.
ReplyWhy does this also makes me anxious. Mainly because I am like that too. But be grateful of where you are now, it's not that simple to find a job these days. Let's continue growing together and keep learning from our past mistakes. :)
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