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How do you get over someone that you never dated?
How do you get over the idea of them and the possibilities and hopes that you dreamed of?
How do you prevent from finding comfort in them? Or the idea of them? Or find comfort in their existence?
How do you stop being affected by someone who doesn’t even care that you exist?
Help please. I’m getting tormented everyday and I want it to stop.
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I wish the answer was simple but it's not. I was exactly where you are a year ago. I had broken up with the love of my life, the person who i was supposed to get married with and have kids. The break up had me all fucked up. My best advice is feel the pain, think of all the negative reasons why they are not the person for you, and focus on yourself. I literally looked up articles about self love and that's what helped me get over my ex. Like i said it's not easy but feeling the pain now, as much as it hurts will helo you heal your broken heart. You have to be strong and try not to contact them. Good luck!
ReplyI know it's very hard to give up the idea of what a beautiful thing it could've been. I've felt it and cried about it. And by heaven's grace, I had a chance to make my dream to come true. I liked it but trust me...it wasn't at all as I thought it would be. I had cried for this person...spent papers writing about him and my pain. But when the time came to be happy, turns out I had been making up how beautiful it would be....it was far from reality.
So know it isn't as beautiful as you think...maybe this can help you move on
ReplyAin't no way to stop that, so I say, run towards love. If your love isn't something they can return, then that's ok. Acceptance helps too, I'm in the same situation you are in. I'm in love with someone I can't be with but we're good friends. Talking to her makes me feel nice, but it leaves me with a sh***y feeling after because i want more.
There's no silver bullet to end our pain, acceptance helps. If you can find a way to distance yourself that works too. Avoid that particular person's social media account, out of sight out of mind. If you do end up thing about that person, let it ride, denying it will only make the feelings stronger.
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