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My fiancé loved a girl since university been 7 years already. The girl cheated on him but his love didn't changed, they just broke up because the girl didn't want him anymore. He always cherished their memories, her love, their moments, her jokes, everything. Then he met me like 3 years ago, being blinded by ex's love, he was unable to give love and treat me right. I was patient and then I choose to give up. Then he said he realized during the break up that I was the one for him. Yet in our fights, he always think about his ex. One day during our fights, he was fed up with me not trusting me and he told me "You don't have to worry about me cheating on you, am not interested in any other girls, the only woman I would want in my life is my EX". This broke up my heart and we were back to normal. I could never forget this sentence. 1 year already every things calm, now the comeback of his ex. She became famous in doing local things, she appears in newspapers, social media everywhere, Even his family are sharing her pics and all. She even held a workshop near my fiancé work place. All this is literally making me depressed. Whats more stressful is that she is a software engineer in an unknown company and I am studying computer science. I feel inferior infront of her.. professionally and as well in love.I feel like I lack of many things in me. Some are really not my fault like I was born poor and couldnt go to university back in the days. I started university when I was 25 and today am 26. The ex is 27, already a software engineer with 2 degrees and small business. I don't know if my fiancé knows these things about her, I dont want to ask him because if he didnt know he will start looking up for her. I feel so down and want to give up everything.
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Hey I'm sorry you're going through this. I think it's 100% your fiancé's fault that you have this insecurity. Think about it, if he hadn't entered your life with his weepy obsession over the other girl, wouldn't you be so much happier and proud of your own accomplishments? Coming from a poor family and working your way to university? You should feel good about yourself but your fiancé is dragging you down by implying you're "2nd best". I really don't think he's the right one for you. You deserve someone who recognizes you as THE best. It's not too late to call off the marriage, or at least have a serious talk with him about all this. You deserve better.
ReplyI 100% agree with the comment above! It’s never to late to have a serious talk with him because his actions are NOT ok! You don’t want to go through life being miserable, so really think about this and think about what YOU want. Put yourself first! 💜
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