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Me and a guy were together for ages, bit we stopped seeing eachother before Christmas.
We met up again yesterday, things were great, the chitter chatter in my brain completely subsided for a little while, we did the nasty etc,
But things have just gone back to square one again. Honestly feel like I'm just there for when he needs something.
Feel like such a bloody idiot
This honestly hurts more than him not being in my life full stop
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it hurts because you love him. and that's not a bad thing, never feel bad about loving someone. but if you feel like this is unhealthy for you, you should distance yourself from him. ik it hurts, ik it's hard, ik you don't want to, but a relationship has to go both ways, and if he's not into it, you giving everything you have but not getting the same in return, it's not ok. again, ik it hurts and it's gonna be extremely hard, it will take lots of time to heal but it's better. you need to love yourself and take care of yourself first. idk how could I help you other than saying this, ik these are just words and I wish I could help you more. stay strong, cuz you got this, even if it doesn't look like that. <333
ReplyThis is spectacular advice! I endorse it fully
ReplyI totally agree with this person who commented. It was very well said. I give so much credit to this person because it also makes me think as well. In my opinion, I think you should distance yourself from him and ask yourself, "Does he really care about me? Or does he want what he sees on the outside?" He shouldn't be looking at what's on the outside. He should be looking at the most beautiful person on the inside. No girl should be treated that way. Like a girl he wants to have fun with only to leave her in the dust until he feels like he wants it again. No honey, don't go down that road. You deserve MUCH much better than that. I promise you that. You're giving him all of your attention and your commitment while he's just standing there, treating you like you don't exist until he wants something from you. Stay safe!! I'm rooting for you!! <333
ReplyGenerally speaking : "guys give love for sex, girls give sex for love". Both guys and girls have the immense potential to fake or abuse love and sex for their own selfish pleasure. How do you know it's true love - he marries you, no way around this. Otherwise - it's all fun and games. Best of luck.
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