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So my dad passed away when I was 15 , I'm now 21. Growing up my cousins was always closer to my dad then I was .( Me ending up realizing I am transgnder mtf) they had a bond that was close because they where always the son he wanted , and the son I could never be. Now later in life my cousin is having a baby. He wants to talk to me about the baby's name , and I know he wants to use my father's name for the middle name of his child. However as much as I wish I could support that deep inside I can't. I feel like even though I am a transgender woman if I have kids or not it should be a name that I decide to be used or not. I feel like that's the one thing I should have , but at the same time I feel selfish. I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt anyone's feeling because it's all out of love , but deep down I can't let this go. So please I need advice .
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Just try to explain him all of this I am sure he'll try to understand and you are not being selfish in any way it is something which is really close to you and keeping the things which are close to you , doesn't make you selfish in any way ..
ReplyIf I were you:
Tell him that it's great news; but, just so he is aware, you plan on using your dad's name no matter what he does.
You aren't controlling. You aren't telling him what to do. You aren't emotionally manipulating him. You are just telling him your plans for that name. What he does with that knowledge is up to him.
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