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I've been feeling more talkative lately for some reason and usually I am quite quiet. Well, I am starting to feel less like talking again because I am realizing it's just better to not talk much. Idk, if I talk little, I can spend more time in my own thoughts instead of engaging with the outside world. To me, this way of living is more energizing and natural feeling. I think being the quiet one is fine. That's just who I am, but it's not that I won't talk about things ever. It's just that, I feel people care more about what they have to say than what I have to say anyway. Which I expect, so it's just better to listen. And I don't get upset from this because I am a bit private anyway, and most of the time I would rather listen than talk. If they are curious about me, sure I'll talk some. If I think I have something they should know, then I should say it. But, I feel like when I offer information about myself or my thoughts....well I feel that I just don't need to in many situations. If they care, they can ask, but otherwise, what's the point if they don't care? I don't think my opinion is that talking is over rated exactly, I just think that it's not something for me to do often. We do need the extroverts and those rarer introverts that talk a bit. I'm the one that listens more than anything, not that I won't ask about a person to make polite conversation. If I do that, I try to ask something deeper that's not just completely small talk.
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