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✨ Dear Writer of: "Pain"... ✨
1 year ago · · Stress,
In my opinion, don't be afraid to tell him exactly how you feel.
Relationships are all about honesty, trust, loyalty, and many other important things. Sharing feelings and expressing your emotions helps make the relationship become stronger and healthier. Don't be afraid to tell your boyfriend why you're scared that he's going to leave.
I just want to say congratulations on your one-month tomorrow!!! That is really great!! All relationships should have 2 people who love each other 50/50. Everything is great if you have a relationship that way.
Honestly, I felt the exact same way as you many times in my life. I thought I would get use to feeling hopeful that nobody would leave me. But not really. I still grow up fearing I would feel scared that one day, just one day, I would be scared that my boyfriend would leave me. And I still grow fearing that. Every single day of my life.
Ever had that feeling where you think about something that you fear would, one day, come true? You start crying. Hoping it doesn't come true? That's how I felt. That's how I feel. Although I tried my best to keep that thought hidden away, it wasn't easy for me to keep it from anyone. I cried, I was shaking, I couldn't breathe, and I felt like the whole time I was going to just break down.
My advice? Always talk to your boyfriend/best friend/or adult about how you're feeling. Especially your boyfriend. If you're having thoughts about this and it's making you feel scared and upset, I would consider talking to him about that. It helps him understand how you're feeling and how he can help you and comfort you. I wish you the best of luck!! And again, I hope you two last a lifetime together!! You sound very sweet!!