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I am a freshman and my high school soccer season starts next week and I have many issues. First off outside of the high school season I have always played on a club team. This is also true for all the other girls that will be on the high school team. But because I am so young for my grade I was unable to play on the club team that all the other freshman have played on since they were little. So when I have been going to the open gyms for high school (optional before season practice) I don't know any of the girls there and they make me feel left out since they have known each other since they were little. In addition, their club team was very well skilled and organized with an amazing coach which is the opposite of my team. This means that they have had better opportunities to grow as players so I feel that I am not as good as them. Plus since I am not as good as them and I don't know them well some don't pass to me and talk behind my back. All of this causes me to get so stressed out whenever I play with them that I under perform even more. Lastly, I am worried that because I don't look as good as the other players that I will not get to play much during the games (which is different than my club team where I am one of the best bc everyone else isn't very good). So if anyone has any advice on how to get to know the girls better, play better, stress less, or impress coaches let me know because at this point this is all causing me to not even like soccer anymore.
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