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how can u tell someone they just don't have a chance with another person? a boy has been obsessed with my friend for like four years now and she's told him multiple times she doesn't want to be with him and she keeps ignoring him in any way or form so he keeps coming to me talking about how much he cares for her etc. And it's just really annoying for me, idk what to say to him so he could stop. They've never even met just the two of them, the three of us have hung out a couple of times. he knows she doesn't feel the same for him, but for some reason he still is like obsessed with her. it's crazy and idk what to do. telling him straight up that he doesn't have a chance hasn't even worked. does anyone have any advice?
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So basically you're trying to make someone not love someone? Well you can't make someone love you and you can't take away love from someone else. It just don't work that way. It's almost like saying you're gunna just never be sad again. It doesn't work. If he loves her then that's just how it's gunna be. It's not like he's doing anything wrong by loving her. He can't help it. It's just a powerful feeling. Maybe he's happier loving someone instead of just not loving.
ReplyYou need to find a way to brake it down so he can understand most people when they fall in love with a person that they can't stop thinking about it is hard to take no for a answer. I would try to make him see that she isn't right for her and maybe try getting him to like someone else. But tbh that is a really diffucult one to deal with becasue most people are blinded by love. And it is exstremy hard when you are still trying to be with that person but they don't feel the same way about them. I would recomend trying to find someone who will love him as much as he loves your friend and maybe try getting them alone together sometimes that works...
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