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I have been in love with this particular guy for as long as i can remember. I was in fifth standard and now i graduated high school. I know it's crazy the other crazy part is i never told anyone until i was in tenth standard. I told my best friend. It was nerve racking but somehow i felt relived. I am never open about my feelings, I never wanted any relationship out of it soi thought it would be okay if i never confessed. But i loved him a lot. Eventually i let my feelings win and told him i loved him for a long time and said i wanted to move on so i needed to get it out of my chest. He responded well and was quite surprised with the fact that i even liked him. I know he didn't liked me like that and it was fine i was just relived that he understood and now i would be able to move on after 6 years of constantly liking him. it has been a year already after i confessed but i still can't get over him. I don't know what to do and my thoughts are taking over. I feel trapped and i can't help it. Why can't i stop thinking about him? please i really need to move on. I feel a complete idiot and i know it's so stupid but i really have no control over it. idk what to do
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Hi ma'am,
I don't personally know you but I have been in a similar situation,
I loved a girl and it took me years to muster up the courage to tell her,
But she said no to me and told me to do something better with my life,
Not a day goes by when I don't miss her, it hurts alot.
Initially I thought that I wouldn't ever get over it, I nearly killed myself for it.
I loved her alot but the truth is, there is nothing we can do in loving someone, even if the person doesn't love you back.
It took me alot of years to get over her,
But yes it does get better, I won't lie to you that it doesn't hurt and that you can forget the person in a day.
It kills you deep down but eventually your family, your obligations and your will gets you through everything.
I know that I can't help you much through this message but I truly hope that you get over this difficult phase of your life.
ReplyWow your story is really amazing. I feel relived in a way that i am not alone in this situation. Was nice reading your story. Best wishes
ReplyThank you,
And please never feel as if you are alone.
We don't know but there alot of people who would truly do anything for us.
And we all wish that you too can get over this.
It hurts but yes, at the same time it's freeing.
ReplyUnrequited love* yeah it's tough. Been there. How do you move on? I'm not sure. It feels like to me everyone on after has been a rebound. Something to do before going back to the old bone. I wish I could be more help to you. Maybe you can use it as a muse and get real artistic with word, paint anything
ReplyYes i am trying that. Well i guess i will be fine. Thanks for your concern
ReplyAll the best and hope that you get whatever it is that you want in your life.
Regards.
ReplyStay focused on your short term goals, accomplish one, move on to the next. Pursue new hobbies, or extra-curricular activities. Eventually you will meet people with your similar interests which is a recipe for love to blossom. Best of luck.
Why do we have so much faith in love, something we cannot prove exists, something we cannot hold, sell or buy; something no scientist anywhere in the world will find in our autopsy next to our last meal or the disease that ravaged us, a force so powerful we are willing to die for it... or for lack of it.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
John 4:8
Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.
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